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Hey Roni,
I adore my husband. He’s thoughtful, funny, generous, and would do just about anything for me……except apparently clean up after himself.
Every weekend he goes on a shopping spree. He comes home excited, opens every purchase like it’s Christmas morning, and then……leaves every empty box exactly where it lands.
Living room.
Patio.
Bedroom.
Garden.
Sometimes I think I could follow him around the parcel just by tracking the cardboard trail.
And don’t even get me started when he decides he’s “going to build something.”
Suddenly there are plywood cubes, random textures, prim scraps, half-finished test objects, floating spheres, resize scripts, and mysterious objects named “New Object (27)” scattered across our property like the aftermath of a tiny tornado.
Eventually he finishes his project. The project gets cleaned up.
Everything else?
Apparently becomes part of the landscaping.
Our beautiful home slowly transforms into what I can only describe as a post-apocalyptic Home Depot.
Now yes, technically I could return all his junk.
Except I can’t just return everything he owns because he also has actual furniture and decorations rezzed around the house.
So instead I have to inspect every random object individually, trying to determine if it’s an abandoned box or a beloved decorative accent before sending it back. It’s exhausting.
Not to mention all those forgotten boxes and test objects eat up our prim allowance for absolutely no reason.
The worst part?
Whenever friends want to come over, I have to tell them, “Hang on… give me five minutes.”
Then I sprint home to do a complete property inspection, praying he hasn’t left another trail of shopping boxes or construction debris lying around.
One of my friends recently joked that I was delaying the teleport because I secretly didn’t want them visiting. That couldn’t be further from the truth!
I’m just trying to make sure they don’t arrive to find what looks like an archaeological dig of my husband’s shopping habits.
I’ve talked to him about it countless times. He always apologizes and says he’ll do better.
Then next weekend…
Boom.
More boxes.
More prim cubes.
More “New Object.”
Am I expecting too much, or is there a support group for people married to virtual tornadoes?
Signed,
Living in a Prim Junkyard
Dear Living in a Prim Junkyard,
Oh sugar…
As someone who takes decorating seriously, I completely understand why this drives you up the wall.
Having to remind your husband over and over to clean up after himself eventually stops feeling like a gentle reminder and starts feeling like you’re nagging. I’m sure that’s not the wife you want to be, and I’m equally sure he doesn’t want to feel like he’s constantly being scolded.
The truth is, this really isn’t about cardboard boxes or plywood prims. It’s about consideration.
Those empty unpacking boxes, stray prim cubes, floating test objects, and mysterious “New Object” leftovers aren’t just clutter. They’re creating extra work for you.
Every single forgotten object means you’re spending your own time cleaning up after someone else instead of enjoying your beautiful home.
And I completely understand why you’re tired of doing the “pre-visitor panic patrol.”
Nothing says “Welcome to our lovely home!” quite like frantically returning plywood cubes five minutes before company arrives.
And if he’s anything like most husbands, he may honestly not realize how much time you’re spending cleaning up after him because by the time he logs back in…………The Junkyard Fairy has already visited. (Psst. that’s you)
Now, I’m going to defend your husband for just a moment.
I don’t think he’s intentionally trying to turn your parcel into a landfill. Builders have a tendency to get into “project mode.” They unpack things, rez things, test things, get distracted by another shiny object, and before they know it, they’ve left a trail of digital breadcrumbs across half the parcel.
It happens.
But here’s my suggestion…
Give the man his own space.
No, I don’t mean kick him out or rent him another parcel.
I mean a workshop.
Do you have a garage? A basement? Better yet, one of the greatest things about Second Life is that we all have air rights. Build him a platform high above your parcel where he can spread out, experiment, unpack his shopping hauls, and build to his heart’s content.
Turn it into his own little man cave in the sky.
Make a big deal out of it! Decorate it with workbenches, measuring grids, shelves full of building supplies, maybe even a little jam box so he can crank up his favorite tunes while he creates. Make it feel like a space that’s completely his.
Who knows? Once it’s his workshop, he may naturally take more pride in keeping it organized.
And if he doesn’t…
Well…
At least the mess is floating 2,000 meters above your gorgeous landscaping where your dinner guests can’t see it.
Then, if you ever find yourself running low on prims, you know exactly where to go for a little spring cleaning.
The best part?
The next time your friends ask to come over, you won’t have to panic or delay the teleport while you conduct a parcel-wide scavenger hunt for abandoned boxes.
You’ll know your beautiful home is exactly that…
A home.
Not aisle seven at Home Depot after a clearance sale.
P.S. Sir… she’s your wife, not your mother, your maid, or the unpaid president of the Parcel Cleanup Committee. Pick up your crap!🧹🪣
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